If you’re a fan of emotionally charged pop music, you already know that Fletcher—born Cari Elise Fletcher—doesn’t just sing songs; she turns her life into stories. With her new album Would You Still Love Me If You Really Knew Me? arriving on July 18, 2025, and her latest single “BOY” stirring conversation across social media, she’s once again in the center of pop culture.
But alongside the excitement around her music, there’s one question fans are circling back to: Who is Fletcher dating now? And is the singer entering this new era with someone special in her life?
Is Fletcher Dating Anyone in 2025?
As of June 2025, there is no verified confirmation that Fletcher is in a relationship.
A few social media posts jokingly suggested she had “announced she had a boyfriend during Pride Month,” but those comments were rooted in fan speculation—not reality. Nothing from Fletcher herself has supported the idea, and the claim quickly dissolved into playful chatter.
Publicly, Fletcher appears to be single. Her focus is fully on her music rollout and on the emotional themes shaping her upcoming album. For an artist who often folds her love life into her lyrics, her silence suggests a personal chapter that’s more introspective than romantic right now.
She hinted as much in a 2024 interview with The Cut, explaining that she was in a phase of figuring out what she wants in a partner and how she can be a better one herself. That kind of self-examination is rare in the spotlight—and it aligns with what we’re seeing from her today.
Her Past Relationships: The Blueprint for Her Music
Fletcher’s dating history has played a huge role in shaping her artistry, and her most famous relationship remains the one she shared with YouTuber and photographer Shannon Beveridge from 2017 to 2020.
Their connection had passion, tension, and heartbreak—three ingredients that fueled some of Fletcher’s most beloved songs. When they broke up, they didn’t walk away from their art; Beveridge even directed the visuals for Fletcher’s 2020 EP The S(ex) Tapes. Filming those videos in the middle of freshly broken hearts created an intimacy that fans still talk about.
Their breakup inspired standout material on Fletcher’s 2022 album Girl of My Dreams, especially the viral single “Becky’s So Hot.” The song referenced Beveridge’s new girlfriend, Becky Missal, and sparked an avalanche of reactions online. With lyrics blending humor and sting, Fletcher created a sapphic pop moment that became instantly iconic. Beveridge responded publicly with good humor, and the internet did what it always does—ran wild with the drama.
Their story resurfaced again with Fletcher’s 2023 track “Eras of Us.” She revealed the song was inspired by unexpectedly running into Beveridge at Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour. The flood of old feelings pushed her to write about the different “eras” of their relationship. The music video, which features Fletcher in a barren cityscape, captured the ache of seeing someone you used to love from a distance—still familiar, yet no longer yours.
Other artists took notice too. Taylor Swift praised Fletcher’s lyrical sharpness, especially her 2019 hit “Undrunk,” solidifying Fletcher’s place among pop’s most emotionally resonant storytellers.
Between relationships, Fletcher has openly explored dating apps like Raya and said she’s been on dates. But her career, especially her life on the road, has often made long-term connection difficult. She admitted as much in a 2024 Rolling Stone UK interview, describing how touring complicates intimacy.
A Queer Artist Finding Strength in Openness
Fletcher’s transparency about her sexuality is one of the many reasons fans see her as more than a pop star. Growing up in Asbury Park, New Jersey, she was drawn to music early on, but it was discovering her queer identity that gave her songs their distinctive emotional core.
Her music videos and lyrics celebrate queer desire and heartbreak without apology. Whether she’s yearning, hurting, or healing, she shares the story fully—and that honesty has made her a voice for LGBTQ+ fans searching for representation.
Her influence extends beyond music, too. Fletcher appeared in The L Word: Generation Q, a moment that thrilled her followers and cemented her place in queer pop culture. She’s spoken about how meaningful it was to meet cast members she admired, proving that she’s just as enthusiastic about queer storytelling as her fans are about hers.
Her authenticity also shines through her discussions about mental health. In 2023, she revealed she had been diagnosed with Lyme disease, forcing her to pause touring and return home to New Jersey. She spent that time walking, journaling, and rediscovering parts of herself she had neglected. This period of healing now echoes through the themes of her upcoming album.
How Her Music Mirrors Her Personal Evolution
Fletcher’s 2025 album Would You Still Love Me If You Really Knew Me? hints at a willingness to reveal even more of her inner life. The title alone suggests vulnerability—an invitation for listeners to see the unfiltered version of her, not just the pop persona.
Her newest single, “BOY,” released in June 2025, leans into emotional nuance rather than naming names. It explores longing, identity, and internal conflict, showing Fletcher once again treading the line between personal confession and artistic metaphor.
Her last album, In Search of the Antidote (2024), set the tone for this chapter. Written during her recovery from Lyme disease, it explored healing, acceptance, and what it means to grow through pain. Songs like “Doing Better” marked a shift away from breakup angst toward clarity, balance, and self-compassion.
Fans expect the new record to build on that growth while returning to the heartfelt intensity that first made Fletcher’s music go viral.
Why Fletcher Resonates So Deeply With Her Fans
What truly sets Fletcher apart is her commitment to authenticity. She doesn’t avoid the messiness of love—she embraces it. She writes about jealousy, desire, loss, and longing with a voice that encourages listeners to explore their own feelings without shame.
As a queer woman, her storytelling gives representation to relationships and emotions that mainstream pop often sidelines. Young fans especially see her as a guide—someone unafraid to ask hard questions about identity, body, desire, and self-worth.
Her honesty about breakups, health issues, family ties, and sexuality creates a sense of intimacy between her and her listeners. It’s no wonder that people are curious about her dating life; she has built a career out of sharing pieces of her heart.
Looking Toward Fletcher’s Next Era
With her album release approaching, Fletcher seems fully immersed in her creative world. Fans will undoubtedly keep searching for clues about her dating life, but for now, she’s letting the music take center stage.
And maybe that’s the point. Fletcher doesn’t appear to be avoiding romance; she seems focused on writing from a place of clarity and growth. Whether a new love interest appears or she keeps her heart to herself a little longer, her evolution continues to inspire.
Whatever comes next—musically or personally—will likely be honest, poetic, and unmistakably Fletcher.
Conclusion
As of June 2025, Fletcher is not publicly dating anyone. While fan chatter occasionally hints at new romance, the singer hasn’t confirmed any relationship. Instead, she seems to be channeling her energy into her art, using her past love stories, her queer identity, and her personal healing to shape her upcoming album.
From the emotional fallout of her relationship with Shannon Beveridge to viral tracks like “Becky’s So Hot,” Fletcher’s love life has always been intertwined with her music. And as she prepares to release Would You Still Love Me If You Really Knew Me?, fans can expect another chapter full of honesty, reflection, and heart.