Role Model—real name Tucker Harrington Pillsbury—has become one of indie pop’s most genuine and emotionally raw voices. With his No Place Like Tour (The Longest Goodbye) in full swing, a Netflix rom-com on the way, and the continued success of Kansas Anymore, fans are once again asking the same thing:
Who is Role Model dating now?
Is he still single?
And what’s really going on with Emma Chamberlain?
Let’s walk through everything that’s confirmed.
Is Role Model Single or Dating Someone?
Tucker Pillsbury is single.
There is no new girlfriend, no soft-launch on Instagram, and no confirmed romantic partner as of August 29, 2025.
His last public relationship was with Emma Chamberlain, the YouTube megastar he dated for about three years. They broke up in October 2023, and since then he hasn’t entered—or announced—any new romance. Even with fans constantly speculating on TikTok and Twitter, Tucker hasn’t hinted at anyone new.
Recent interviews, including his 2024 Vanity Fair profile, make it clear he’s been channeling the breakup and his homesickness into music rather than dating. Tracks like Frances, Some Protector, and the emotional tone of Kansas Anymore point to introspection, not new love.
For now, he’s leaning into single-guy energy while touring, filming, and reconnecting with himself.
How Tall Is Role Model?
Tucker Pillsbury is 5 feet 8 inches tall.
An average height, an easy presence onstage, and part of the relaxed indie-pop persona fans love.
The Emma Chamberlain Chapter (2020–2023)
To understand why fans still bring up Emma, it helps to revisit their story—a very modern Gen Z love arc.
- They first connected in 2020, when Tucker slid into Emma’s DMs to compliment her style.
- Their romance grew slowly through pandemic texting before they ever met.
- By 2022, they were showing up together at events like the Vanity Fair Oscar Party.
- In 2023, they “hard launched” via a Valentine’s Day feature in GQ, where Tucker called Emma his first-ever girlfriend.
Emma even appeared—hidden—in his “neverletyougo” video. His early album Rx was practically a love letter to her, with songs like forever&more capturing that euphoric honeymoon phase.
But by late 2023, things shifted. Tucker later shared that L.A. life, career pressure, and a quarter-life crisis created distance. The breakup wasn’t messy—they simply grew in different directions.
Many songs on Kansas Anymore reflect that quiet heartbreak. Frances, titled after Emma’s middle name, reads like a gentle goodbye.
She has since been linked to musician Peter McPoland, while Tucker is focusing on himself.
Who Is Role Model? The Story Behind the Artist
Tucker Pillsbury is more than the indie-pop heartthrob image. His background is full of creative pivots, small-town roots, and genuine vulnerability.
Maine Roots and a Childhood Full of Elvis
Born May 15, 1997 in Cape Elizabeth, Maine, Tucker grew up performing Elvis songs for his family.
His parents—Rusty, a real estate appraiser, and Susan, a special education teacher—gave him a grounded upbringing that continues to influence his music.
Film Student Turned Musician
He originally studied film in Pittsburgh, only to discover songwriting was his real passion.
Under the name Tucker, he released a rap mixtape (Since When, 2016), before switching to singing. His bedroom-made EP Arizona in the Summer caught Mac Miller’s attention, leading to an Interscope deal.
The Stage Name “Role Model”
The name came from a joke—initially tied to the 2008 comedy Role Models.
Eventually, it stuck because it complimented his candid, imperfect, relatable persona.
A TikTok Force With a Sense of Humor
His track Sally exploded online, spawning the “Sally dance” trend. On tour, he invites fans—and sometimes celebrities—to become that night’s “Sally.” Clips featuring Olivia Rodrigo, Kate Hudson, and Natalie Portman have gone viral.
Living With Type 1 Diabetes
Tucker openly discusses managing Type 1 diabetes while performing.
His honesty helps fans feel less alone in their own health struggles.
His Acting Debut
In May 2025, he wrapped filming on the Netflix rom-com Good Sex, directed by Lena Dunham and starring alongside Natalie Portman, Mark Ruffalo, and Meg Ryan. It’s the perfect blend of his film-school beginnings and growing artistic reach.
Touring and Music Success
His No Place Like Tour supports the deluxe edition of Kansas Anymore.
Fans consistently describe his shows as intimate, emotional, and unexpectedly funny. Clips from his August 2025 performances show him selecting “Sallies,” debuting songs, and connecting with crowds who know every lyric.
Why Fans Feel So Connected to Role Model
Fans love Tucker because he writes about:
- homesickness
- heartbreak
- messy emotions
- yearning
- identity
- the struggle to grow up gracefully
He doesn’t hide the awkward parts. His shift from upbeat love songs in Rx to the reflective acoustic feel of Kansas Anymore mirrors the emotional journeys many fans are going through themselves.
A GRAMMY.com write-up in mid-2025 praised him for blending indie-pop, folk, and confessionals into something uniquely heartfelt.
What’s Next for Tucker Pillsbury?
He’s in a creative high right now:
- finishing the Longest Goodbye tour
- promoting new singles
- preparing for ACL Fest in October
- filming press for his Netflix debut
- performing at the MusiCares benefit on September 26
- teasing new music on socials
He’s also embraced Maine again, frequently returning home between tour dates for clarity and creative fuel.
As for relationships?
He’s keeping that part of his life quiet, healing at his own pace.
Conclusion
Role Model (Tucker Pillsbury) is single, focused on his music, his acting debut, and the next chapter of his career. His relationship with Emma Chamberlain shaped much of his early work, but he has moved forward with honesty and growth—not into a new romance, but into deeper self-expression.
At 28, he’s creating music that feels like a conversation with fans—warm, vulnerable, and deeply human. Whether you’re dancing to Sally, crying to Frances, or vibing to Kansas Anymore, Tucker’s world is a place where everyone’s emotions are welcome.
And that’s why his fans stay.